Episode Transcript
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okay hello everyone we're going to be
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i have ah i've been working on
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ai stuff and so i have an
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over here i'm going to show you
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her in a second and we're gonna
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be going over the news we're gonna
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see if we're going to be reading
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stuff from reddit if i am either
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you know if i'm a hole and
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stuff and so i have a collection
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of stories so i'm good someone scary
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and we'll be going over that so
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let's get started do which button is
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it so i'm gonna be going over
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the news that's that's an over there
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gonna read our thing ohio wants to
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replace driving instructors with an app okay
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thanks also making sure the volumes good
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we're having so many problems for my
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bluetooth device ohio-based grange insurance is developing
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a new driver training app which can
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turn any adult twenty one years and
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older into an untrained and uncertified but
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still allegedly capable driving instructor and the
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ohio legislature is rolling out the red
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carpet for the app to become illegal
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replacement for tom in a car with
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a real instructor as it stands students
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have to spend eight hours of in-car
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instruction and the instructor providing those lessons
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has to have accumulated sixty hours of
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training on the process if that already
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dismal driver education system were to be
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replaced by an application on the donut
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on register trademark tb loan with your
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thoughts rectangle i have some concerns so
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yeah so essentially what they're talking about
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is you know they're gonna have apps
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teaching kids to drive the kind of
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saint don't really need the parents anymore
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to teach them which is scary because
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a lot of the parents on the
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road can drive like i back in
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two thousand three four five like driving
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was okay see a crazy person every
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once in a while but now it's
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nonstop now so i can't imagine somebody
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who can't learn from a person learning
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from an app you know what's the
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afghan to teach your kid oh you
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all unregistered trademark s driver education system
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has an unregistered trademark d been updated
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in twenty five years and if unregistered
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trademark v ever driven through the state
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that seems to check out with driving
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standards seemingly falling extremely shy short in
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every state in the nation oh you
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all unregistered trademark s drivers are similarly
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inattentive and many blatantly and flagrantly flaunt
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the existing road laws they did commit
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to memory reducing the standards for driving
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education will only serve to increase the
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danger of roadways while it seems imperative
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that ohio driving education receives a series
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of updates and moves to incorporate technology
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and better standards this dose non registered
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trademark t seemed to be the right
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way to go about it no gag
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they can believe people representative club feinstein
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claims that this move is merely an
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attempt to alleviate waiting lists for students
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trying to get driver education as the
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state is liking certified instructors i always
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throw ya on register trademark s a
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backlog in the ability for new drivers
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to get their driven unregistered trademark as
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education he said no way to say
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this is to replace deriving education schools
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no audit unregistered trademark as to enhance
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it make it better a i don't
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really think that's gonna make it better
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under the bells the ohio department of
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public safety would create a rule book
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to establish the kinds of requirements necessary
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to implement this new app based instruction
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the app itself would need to pass
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muster with otps in order to reach
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the wider market and act as a
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stand-in for in-person teaching yes don't track
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your ohio even in michigan so we
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don't like ohio whenever we're my family
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are doing roadtrips and stuff it's kind
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of like the gioco are in ohio
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because it feels like takes like three
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hours to get to ohio where i
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live so like we used to go
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to pennsylvania in new york for school
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and stuff and my sisters were in
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college and maybe driving forever and then
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we find out we're still in ohio
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which is like ah means we have
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like eight more hours to drive so
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this next story is kind of you
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know not a good another happy one
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so we'll leave that squatters suspected of
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killing women and then y c apartment
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stuffing her body and duffel bag police
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sources say so yeah this lady her
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i think our mother died and oh
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she went to go clean out the
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apartment but people had already taken it
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over new york police sources are revealing
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more details about a murder mystery in
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manhattan they say the joint fugitive task
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forces hunting for two suspects after nadia
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va towels fifty two was killed inside
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her mother's new york city apartment eight
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happened in the kips bay neighborhood and
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sources say the suspects were squatters victim
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found squatters in mother's vacant apartment sources
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say according to police horses vito's was
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killed after she traveled to new york
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city from spain to get the apartment
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ready to be occupied a family friend
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it had been vacant for months after
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the death of her mother police sources
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save hotels didn't know when she went
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to the apartment that two squatters had
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been living there when she arrived she
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could be seen on surveillance video coming
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and going from the apartment police believe
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the two suspects returned to the apartment
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after vitello arrived surprised and killed her
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by beating her to death yes not
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to have to stir but it gets
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worse her body was found stuffed in
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a duffel bag in the front closet
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of an apartment on the nineteenth floor
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of the building on thirty first street
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superintendent jean pompey led concerned family members
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into the apartment on march fourteenth after
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they couldn't reach her the male pointed
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to the closet he saw said he
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believed that there's a body in the
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bag pompey said and all of her
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clothes were down so you really couldn't
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see the bank you could see partially
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a little bit the medical examiner ruled
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her death a homicide due to blunt
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force trauma to the head police sources
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that they've identified two squatters they believe
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beat her to death the sources said
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they were not known to mattel's but
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may have been squatting in the apartment
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before she started moving either herself or
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someone else in i've always believed that
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no one had moved in pompey said
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the two suspects are seen on video
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stealing her lexis from the street out
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front and fleeing the car police sources
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said was later involved in an accident
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in pennsylvania sources said the two suspects
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went to used car dealers after the
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crash looking to buy a car they
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remain at large yeah so yeah yeah
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you go home i mean it's terrible
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enough that you know your mother died
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and you go to clear out her
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stuff and then may have squatters there's
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another story i found that work and
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to get to but i think of
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there was like seven law that they
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were trying to pass that if you
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squat in a place long enough you
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can become a tenant i don't know
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if that was pennsylvania or new york
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but i vaguely remember seeing that and
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this one is a little lighter cape
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cod man learns weeks after buying new
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home he dosent on register trademark t
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own part of it so this guy
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buy a new house new hope and
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he owns everything except for ah the
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propane tank so we're gonna see what
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happens that he's nearly out of propane
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the fuel used to heat and cook
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at his newly built cape cod house
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but says he can't get anyone to
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refill the propane tank that's due to
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a heated dispute about who owns it
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and his story raises important questions for
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homebuyers everywhere we've been run earning the
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house at sixty degrees during the day
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in fifty five at night trying to
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hold onto the propane angelina said i've
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got somewhere between a week and ten
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days it must angelina closed on his
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home last july at the time he
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says there was no discussion or any
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disclosures about the propane tank but several
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weeks later he got a letter out
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of the blue from dunlop's propane in
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plymouth the letter is dated august twenty
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fifth six weeks after he closed on
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the property and says the tank belongs
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to dunlop's it also says angelina must
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only purchase propane from them and if
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the tank avery has to be dug
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up he has to pay for it
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i called dunlop's and said who are
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you i don't have an agreement with
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you angelina said in response he says
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dunlop's told him they had an agreement
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with the builder about retaining ownership of
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the propane tank that left angelina live
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all fired up but he decided to
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ignore it at first he was able
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to get the propane tank refilled by
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a different company but then he says
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an ex put a lock on the
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tank that by the way is buried
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in the middle of his front yard
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angelina had to lock removed by locksmith
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and put his own on it gets
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better when i went away on vacation
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i came back my bold had been
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cut off and dunlop's put another log
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in there while i was gone angiolini
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said adding that dunlop's hasn't supplied any
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written documentation of the agreement with the
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builder he refuses to or he doesn't
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have it new center five tried repeatedly
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to get an interview with anyone from
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deniers propane for this story but they
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refused to speak on the record or
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supply documentation on the tanks ownership a
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real estate attorney whoa unregistered trademark s
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not involved in this dispute says an
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arrangement like this should have been disclosed
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xd by the builder in the purchase
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and sale agreement it really is the
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kind of thing that should come up
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fairly early in the process when the
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buyer is looking at the property said
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kelly bonito e a partner specializing in
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real estate law and wilson marino and
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believing a newton instead angelina is purchase
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and sale document it is silent on
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the propane tank it also includes multiple
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clauses which seem to say the tank
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now belongs to angiolini included in the
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sale is a part of the premises
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either buildings structures and improvements says one
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clause and though reads no building structure
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or improvement of any kind belonging to
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any other person or entity shall encroach
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upon her under said premises i do
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think that general language might be enough
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for a buyer to say hey maybe
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i didn't ask you the specific question
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about the propane tanks but i also
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have a clause in my contract that
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says that the components of the house
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come with this house house beneath v
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said and that may be enough massachusetts
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is a caveat emptor or buyer beware
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state which means the burden is on
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a homebuyer to do their homework on
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a property that's why beneath he always
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has buyers ask specifically about fuel tanks
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on a property and solar panels which
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can also come with a long-term lease
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she recommends any buyer include a clause
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in their agreement saying they're not bound
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by any contracts after the sale by
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asking to have that put into a
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contract it might spur a discussion about
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oh just by the way these tanks
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actually are least alone registered trademark iirc
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she said for now it looks like
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this matter will be decided by the
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courts dunlop's propane offered to sell the
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tank to angelina for about four dollars
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oh but angelina believes he already paid
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for it when he bought the house
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so he's taking dunlop's to small claims
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court because hearing date however isn't until
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july okay yeah you have to be
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careful i have to ask everything a
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lot of times when you're in like
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the forest or farmland so if you
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have your own tanks for propane many
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pays someone to come bring it it's
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not like when you're in the city
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or something where you can just hook
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up your house to gas and everything
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and so normally you do pay a
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service to come fill it up but
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i've never heard of someone like the
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company owning the tank and the fact
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that they kept coming onto the property
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cutting his bulks and stuff is just
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like was there no one who said
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hey this might not be a good
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idea you know and the company going
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through and you're constantly going on the
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property that's why you need a dog
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that just has to be a big
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dog and some of them have to
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be like a scary dog this next
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one is so cal pastor accused in
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murder for hire plot that targeted mandating
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his daughter for this one is about
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a pastor in southern california who hired
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a for hire a hitman to take
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out the boyfriend that his daughter was
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as southern california church pastor was arrested
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last week in what authorities described as
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a murder for hire plot that targeted
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a man who dated his daughter police
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announced tuesday samuel davalos parcells forty seven
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of victorville was arrested march thirteenth in
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the october twenty first car to car
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shooting of a man who was driving
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in the riverside area the victim was
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struck several times by gunfire from inside
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a car that pulled alongside him near
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grove community drive in plain view street
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but survived after driving to a hospital
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for treatment in a news news release
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issued tuesday riverside police said the shooting
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was part of a murder for hire
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plot hatched by porcelains he is accused
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of paying two men to carry out
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the killing after providing them with information
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about his daughter's boyfriend including where he
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would be on the night of the
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shooting police said detectives also deterred women
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these men were paid almost forty dollars
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oh by the father it had conducted
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surveillance on the victim and the weeks
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leading up to when they shot hills
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and police said in a statement photos
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released by the department showed what appeared
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to be bullet holes in the windows
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of the victim's car pastor rafael perez
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who runs central the array shy cubed
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and international told nbc law the church
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does not have a fixed location and
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told services around victor vale he said
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puzzles has been volunteer with the church
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for about ten years and filled in
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on pastor duties when paris was away
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process was arrested on suspicion of solicitation
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for murder murder conspiracy to commit murder
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attempted murder and assault with a deadly
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weapon one manual samaras fifty five of
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long beach was arrested on suspicion of
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conspiracy to commit murder attempted murder and
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assault with a deadly weapon so the
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pastor paid close to forty thousand dollars
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to have the boyfriend murdered which yeah
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that's a lot like you really don't
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like that boyfriend if you're willing to
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pay that much to murder him that
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fair enough i guess i would be
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insulted if someone was like hey let's
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murder you for like five hundred bucks
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like is that all i'm worth but
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still forty thousand live here the hospital
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story both men are being held on
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one million dollars bond they were taken
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into custody march thirteenth prazosin invicta ville
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and ceballos in long beach and andric
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no guilty pleas to several charges during
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a joint raymond according to court documents
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jail and court records indicated an x
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coordinate for both men was set for
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march twenty sixth it was not immediately
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clear whether they have attorneys nbc law
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has reached out to the public defender's
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office at riverside county no one answered
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the door the process family home one
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nbc la attempted to contact them for
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comment on wednesday the search continued wednesday
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for a third person wanted in connection
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with the shooting fifty this is a
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shorter story but yeah spy agency ready
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to launch new vehicle tracking satellites so
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yes the space forces ever getting ready
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to launch more satellites and these ones
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are like specifically designed to track vehicles
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and everything around the world the national
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reconnaissance office is gearing up to launch
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new satellites that will enable the us
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military and intelligence community to track moving
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vehicles and people from space the air
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force wants to replace its ageing e
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j s t or s aircraft which
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provides arguing data with more survey base
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assets and handoff a part of the
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ground moving target indicator mission called gmt
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ai two satellites the narrow already put
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satellites into orbit to test out the
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conceptual and now the agencies ready to
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launch satellites for operations said christopher schoolies
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director of the anthro oh either prototypes
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went up there they were delivered in
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about thirty six months from concept to
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launch have operated fine and we have
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exercised with space force and the other
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services to prove their capability and that
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we unregistered trademark grey able to move
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on to production school you said wednesday
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at the national the security innovation based
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summit hosted by the ronald reagan institute
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the antarctic did not disclose when they
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would start launching the new satellites or
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when the systems would be operational the
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agencies developing the program with the space
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force whose operators school fly the new
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satellites and point the sensors while unclassified
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details about the program are sparse the
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space force plans to work with the
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narrow to develop and field gmt ai
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system in fiscal year twenty twenty five
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according to budget documents the service is
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requesting two hundred and forty four million
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dollars in it's twenty twenty five budget
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four it's always long range kill chainset
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program which includes the gmt i effort
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and oq ciliary payloads and it plans
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to spend more than one dollar two
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billion over the next few years i
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always base base gmt isis stim will
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provide actionable information on adversaries surface target
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hts to the warfighter through the advanced
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battle management system abs as an integral
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part of joint all domain command and
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control che dc to concept the usf
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is working with the air force and
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the intelligence community in a complimentary way
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to design develop and deploy space-based gmt
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ai systems all according to documents however
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space force officials have said that the
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gmt program cannon and register trademark team
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move forward until congress passes a fiscal
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twenty twenty four budget because the effort
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is a new start in last euro
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unregistered trademarks budget request if they want
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to spend one point two billion not
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one dollar other than that to fix
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that one should be but i kind
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of already assumed they had technology like
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this but i guess they don't yeah
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yeah that's what it's kind of funny
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but they have some ah some health
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information i don't believe it why you
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should avoid going to the loo just
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in case before leaving home so they're
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saying it's better to hold them parrot
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empty bladder have you ever gone to
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the toilet before leaving the house when
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you don't need to well according to
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experts it could be doing more harm
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than good yes we've all been there
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popping to the loo for the sake
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of it just before heading out but
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it might not come as a surprise
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to you that doing this every time
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could actually weaken your bladder specialist public
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health experts tiffany's sequera shared her warning
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she added going for wee when you
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don't feel the immediate need to do
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so strains your bladder to empty when
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it isn't actually full yet basically if
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you do this regularly you're actually muddling
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the signals between your bladder and brain
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tiffany continued jenner eerily as the bladder
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fills this stretch of urine pressing against
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the bladder wall sends signals to your
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brain that result in a series of
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urges eventually leading you to the toilet
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to pass urine going on that first
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signal to pass urine or even worse
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going when you don't feel the urge
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to pasture and just in case can
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result in a bladder cigna ailing dysfunctions
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so yeah i don't know about this
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but this is mainly focused towards women
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which is it's different because as women
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get older there's more incontinence issues so
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there's a lot of like sneeze and
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pee yeah if you laugh too hard
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you can see both guys it's it's
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the op's visit because as guys get
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older we actually have the we have
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the prostate and so the aretha has
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to go through the pasadena's which is
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common that the prostate gets more large
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that it actually stopped hearing from empty
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and so then instead of so guys
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will go and then have to strain
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to go and those like the comical
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thing of which is drips out but
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a lot of times this guy it's
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you're not able to actually get all
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the urine out so it's like your
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bladder is always at like twenty five
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percent full which is problematic because then
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you can get real infections and stuff
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that can go up to your kidneys
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but so your bladder is always at
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like twenty five percent full and it's
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like oh you think you really have
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to go when it goes up to
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like fanno forty percent full but you
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can never you know get it all
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out so it's a little bit different
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it's important to keep your bladder and
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pelvic floor muscles strong especially for women
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loads of women between thirty five and
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sixty five have trouble with leaking way
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so how do you keep your pelvic
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floor muscles fit you should only go
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for a when you really need to
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and get to know your pelvic floor
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which are the muscles and bits that
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hold up your bladder womb and mills
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to do an exercise think like you're
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trying to stop yourself from letting out
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a big fart then squeeze and pull
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up the muscles from your back passage
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now at the same time imap ijen
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you are also trying to stop yourself
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urinating and pull those muscles up you
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are now contracting your pelvic floor muscle
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if you're running to the loo too
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much it's worth speaking to a professional
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expert or doctor for help okay so
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now we're gonna switch two am i
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the buttonhole e i t h for
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setting some expectations for my new neighbors
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let's see if they're that you asshole
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oh sorry the bottle about two months
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ago the woman in the house i
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crossed the street from me will call
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her dona died she was a great
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woman who was active in the community
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and died quite suddenly which was a
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shock to the entire street well after
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sitting vacant for a while a young
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couple i purchased the home and they
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moved in on saturday they seemed nice
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and wave to me as i watched
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them from my front yard when it
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was clear that they were done unloading
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the truck rang their doorbell to introduce
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myself the men will call him andrea
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answered and i told him the names
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of everyone on the street jt i
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was the first neighbor he had met
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and he seemed eager to learn from
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me i also told him that dani
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was a great woman and that he
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and his wife who will call samantha
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and some pretty big shoes to fill
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nah i don't know where this is
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going but if you meet on the
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first thing you say is hey yeah
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you got big shoes to fill this
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guy huh i'd feel weird virus someone
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said that i mean i know it's
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kind of like a big joke but
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is this like i just met you
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do you know if i'm nice for
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the corner but let's continue on at
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this point i thought it was best
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to tell andrew about some of donna's
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old traditions every easter she would let
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the neighborhood children hunt for eggs in
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her yard and during the holiday season
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she would set up a large light
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display in her yard andrew said something
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like i'm sure she was a great
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woman when he wasn't getting it i
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hinted that it would be a real
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shame of these traditions died out since
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they're so popular with the rest of
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the neighborhood and i asked andrew if
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he and samantha would be willing to
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continue them for the good of the
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st andrews scene sort of taken back
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by my request but i assured him
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that eight april is next month so
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he would have more than enough time
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to gather supplies and plan good hiding
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spots he made up some excuse about
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how he was busy and had to
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go and actually shut the door in
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my face while i was still standing
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on the porch don't i never would
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have dreamed of treating me this way
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and needless to say i was pr
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and now i'm sure it's a possibility
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that on moving day he genuinely was
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busy with something but all of his
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boxes and furniture were already inside the
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house not out on the driveway so
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from from this point i think this
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person kind of is the bud hole
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because you know you just moved into
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a new neighborhood that was donald's traditions
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and so it's just like why don't
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you to have your those traditions on
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your own house um i mean it's
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pretty big deal having you know a
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party and get togethers and like if
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you don't know anyone in the neighborhood
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it's like why are you making them
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they just moved in why are you
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making them continue those traditions and having
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people over that you don't know and
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like you don't even know maybe they
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don't celebrate easter maybe you know they
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don't like kids and everything so this
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weird mnuchin a bit like hey do
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you want to do this and the
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guy should have been upfront and said
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effect no but like i don't want
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random strangers coming over to the house
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but let's see maybe the story gets
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better i won't back to my house
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and told my teenage son who will
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call her old what happened he told
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me that i was being controlling and
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that i should go back over and
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apologize immediately for the way i acted
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i see so much of my ex-husband
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and harold sometimes and this is actually
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the way i would have expected him
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to react harold also told me that
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i had made a terrible first impression
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by what i had said i asked
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him if he was done criticizing me
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yet and said that it wasn't at
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all unreasonable for me to have standards
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for my neighbor's behavior harold got up
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from where he was sitting on the
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couch and actually locked himself in his
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bedroom room he's been quite distant ever
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since and it's been almost a week
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of this i'm just trying to get
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a new couple acquainted with our traditions
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and every step of the way the
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people around me seem to be telling
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me to stop i want to be
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welcoming but it seems like everyone just
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wants to disparage me the whole experience
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has really turned me off a i
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t h so yeah i think of
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everyone you interact with is telling you
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you know you're being inappropriate asking this
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stuff or your neighbor's sister the post
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was titled am i setting some expectations
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for my new neighbors essentially to hive
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that it's just like that's expectations for
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your neighbor is like two they put
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the rick cycle ben do they take
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it out take it back then you've
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trashed on the yard like that's the
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kind of things you should be expecting
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from your neighbors but having them like
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fortunate and have to do parties and
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stuff like that with a bad first
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impression and her son harold seems to
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be like the sane one but and
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she went on to say yeah here's
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the chamber this and every step of
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the way around her people seem to
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0:33:42,560 --> 0:33:44,750
tell her to stop she's like yeah
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you should stop you know don't bring
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0:33:46,580 --> 0:33:48,350
that up anymore but yeah that's a
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0:33:48,350 --> 0:33:52,790
really weird first impression to have and
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ah yeah so not saying that's fine
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neither one yeah this one is am
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0:34:09,950 --> 0:34:11,870
i the butt hole for telling my
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ex close friend that i don't want
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to work with her in the future
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but in terms of background information we
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are only in senior year back in
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grade ten i met this girl who
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soon we ended up being close friends
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we were both lonely so it worked
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in our favor in grade eleven i
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made a lot of more friends and
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we ended up kind of distancing fit
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unregistered trademark feed friends told me about
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some of the things my previous close
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friend did such as always staring at
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people and being insensitive although i felt
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sorry for those friends e unregistered trademark
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ve never seen her behave like that
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in front of me well that all
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changed in grade twelve now i am
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going to call this previous close friend
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e f t or x friend thing
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thought an unregistered trademark as what i
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usually call her plus i can't unregistered
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trademark t think of a better name
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it all started in october when i
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got praised by my english teacher for
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my personal essay i was super excited
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so i immediately told my friend group
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all of them were happy for me
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except for e f t who said
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that i most likely still the se
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online and that my essay is hard
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0:35:38,030 --> 0:35:40,520
to read everyone was put off by
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0:35:40,520 --> 0:35:42,890
her behavior that deigned everything went downhill
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0:35:42,890 --> 0:35:46,520
from there yes i know she her
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friends getting jealousy or what but that's
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0:35:48,441 --> 0:35:50,930
a really weird thing to have happened
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0:35:50,930 --> 0:35:52,700
all out of the blue if they've
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0:35:52,700 --> 0:35:54,590
been friends from tenth grade and then
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all of a sudden they're in the
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yeah i was in grade twelve like
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where does that come out of the
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how could she hide being you know
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kind of snarky person that whole time
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not continuing on the story then came
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the next situation sacred center a huge
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problem in the group is that we
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didn't unregistered trademark t know if we
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should include the f t in the
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secret santa we didn't unregister trademark do
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you want anything problematic to occur so
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we do that and i ended up
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having to give her a gift when
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i gave it to her she looked
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upset and didn't unregistered trademark t say
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anything once again everyone was put off
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by her behavior i was done at
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this point so the next school day
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i confronted her about her behavior there
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was also the fact that she had
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unfriended me twice she kept going on
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saying that oh yeah i was in
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my heater she asked me if i
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wanted her to continue being a part
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0:37:01,370 --> 0:37:03,890
of my life without hesitation i said
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no and she started tearing up so
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i left i thought that by then
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we were officially not friends anymore a
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big problem was that she remained in
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0:37:12,980 --> 0:37:15,710
our group every one feels mixed over
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0:37:15,710 --> 0:37:17,690
her but a lot of my friends
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0:37:17,720 --> 0:37:19,220
are worried that if we kick her
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0:37:19,220 --> 0:37:20,660
out of the group she would cause
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0:37:20,690 --> 0:37:22,730
a scene hence she remained in the
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0:37:22,730 --> 0:37:25,040
group which is also a huge factor
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0:37:25,040 --> 0:37:27,380
as to why she's behaving like this
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those continuum today friday she was asking
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me about data management homework so i
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0:37:41,390 --> 0:37:44,120
was helping her on that she started
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to complain about her courses and how
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she might just drop some because they
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0:37:48,080 --> 0:37:50,900
are too difficult for her she seemed
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0:37:50,900 --> 0:37:52,460
lost in life so we were trying
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0:37:52,460 --> 0:37:54,350
to give her legitimate advice on what
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0:37:54,350 --> 0:37:57,770
to do post secondary wise i suggested
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for her to take a gap year
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but she wanted to graduate with all
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of us then she proposed the idea
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0:38:03,920 --> 0:38:05,120
that her and i can work in
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0:38:05,120 --> 0:38:07,880
the same job in the future without
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0:38:07,880 --> 0:38:10,190
hesitation i said oh we i don't
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unregistered trademark do you want to work
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0:38:12,320 --> 0:38:15,050
sg with iwa she was in disbelief
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so she asked me why i simply
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said that i didn't unregistered trademark do
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you need to answer that question then
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i saw her tear up it was
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0:38:25,550 --> 0:38:28,520
really awkward and always an unregistered trademark
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t sure what to do so i
786
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talked to some other friends i found
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extreme that she would want me to
788
0:38:34,940 --> 0:38:36,380
work with her and not a friend
789
0:38:36,380 --> 0:38:39,680
she's currently closer to than i realised
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0:38:39,710 --> 0:38:41,600
she was trying to piggyback on my
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success since she always got jealous of
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me ex she was upset that i
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got into a top school she knows
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0:38:49,730 --> 0:38:52,310
i am academically capable and she always
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0:38:52,310 --> 0:38:54,410
tends to take the easy routes so
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i think that was the purpose of
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0:38:55,850 --> 0:38:59,030
her little scheme but even so i
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felt kind of bad i don't unregistered
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trademark t know if i was being
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0:39:04,100 --> 0:39:06,560
too harsh here i did not mean
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to make her cry i just wanted
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to be straightforward with her because i
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didn't unregistered trademark de wander through thinking
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that we were still friends a i
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t h so i don't think she's
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the butt hole i think our friend
807
0:39:20,300 --> 0:39:24,260
was getting weird where do the jealous
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of her in twelfth grade i don't
809
0:39:26,900 --> 0:39:28,640
know why that all sudden start happening
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0:39:29,030 --> 0:39:30,320
but it seemed like the friend had
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a history of that with other people
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so i don't know why she was
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0:39:34,310 --> 0:39:35,629
able to keep it down for this
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0:39:35,629 --> 0:39:38,630
friend but like i think it's understandable
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to feel bad about it i mean
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it's not a good situation and you
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0:39:43,100 --> 0:39:45,800
know not good situations even though you
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0:39:45,800 --> 0:39:48,770
do the right thing might not you
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0:39:48,770 --> 0:39:50,180
know still might not feel right so
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i don't think she's the pothole but
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you know if you never got the
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the picture that you're no longer friends
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and she was still in the friend
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group she probably thought oh you know
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it's not that bad but i guess
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it was that bad so we're gonna
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do one more ah this one is
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as an interesting one but bet i
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read the whole way through today on
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my way home from work i found
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a person laying on the sidewalk unresponsive
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he was an older gentleman with all
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of his things scattered everywhere as if
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he suddenly fell i stopped my car
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and tried to get a response from
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him i went to my car to
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get my phone to call nine hundred
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eleven and realised i self out of
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the car a neighbor helped me call
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nine hundred eleven once mt arrived they
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realised he was overdosing and administered aid
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the person who helped me call nine
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hundred eleven gave me a ride to
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my home to get my spare key
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i told him i would have my
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partner drive me back to my car
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thinking there was no way my partner
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would be upset with me about this
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as i went to find my partner
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in my home i fell down the
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stairs from rushing around the house i'm
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ok my fall woken and he yelled
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at me asking what i was doing
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i explained to him what happened and
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asked for him to take me to
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the car with the spare key e
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he was very upset i woke him
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from the nap and was asking him
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for help so i told him that
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if it is an inconvenience e unregistered
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trademark l l just walk back to
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my car only six blocks away he
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got even more upset that i suggested
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i would walk to the car to
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avoid an argument i agree to just
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let him take me he was so
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upset like you could see it on
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his face i looked at him as
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we drove to my car hoping year
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unregistered trademark d get some sort of
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reassurance that everything is okay but there
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was none he become more upset i
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was staring at him to make it
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less uncomfortable i talked to him im
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about how it all happened then we
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arrived at the scene of the incident
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to retrieve my car when my partner
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saw the men he said oh we
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i don't unregistered trademark do you know
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why you stopped to help him you
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should have just let him die this
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is because he noticed he was likely
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homeless backpack with sleeping bag soiled close
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it etc i didn't unregister trademark t
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say anything back to him in that
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moment because i was shocked this was
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his response to me helping someone i
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was not looking for anything over the
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top but i was not expecting to
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be scolded for doing the right thing
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when i got home my state in
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my car for now or thinking about
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what had happened aid calming myself down
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he asked me to come in and
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eventually texted me saying that i did
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the right thing and he loved me
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but i cannot unregister trademark t albinoni
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said this response after everything that happened
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he didn't unregister trademarked he asked me
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if i was okay from the ff
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fall down the stairs nor did i
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0:43:15,880 --> 0:43:17,560
feel he genuinely thought i did the
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right thing i came inside and he
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wanted to interact with me i'll lovingly
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i was called because e unregistered trademark
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im still in shock from the entire
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ordeal and heartbroken that i was treated
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this way he kept demanding i stopped
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0:43:32,770 --> 0:43:34,480
giving one word answers as to his
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0:43:34,480 --> 0:43:38,170
questions and interactions i explained that e
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0:43:38,200 --> 0:43:41,740
unregistered trademark im still upset and disappointed
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0:43:42,460 --> 0:43:44,886
his response was that i didn't unregister
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trademark t understand the situation and feelings
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0:43:48,340 --> 0:43:51,220
about being woken up to chaos i
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explained that i can understand it but
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0:43:53,290 --> 0:43:55,270
i don't on reggie easter trademark t
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0:43:55,270 --> 0:43:56,710
agree with it and have a hard
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0:43:56,710 --> 0:43:59,050
time understanding how someone can be so
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0:43:59,050 --> 0:44:01,270
mean and cold during an incident like
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this he went on to tell me
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0:44:03,850 --> 0:44:05,320
why i was wrong and i should
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0:44:05,320 --> 0:44:07,060
be thanking him for waking up from
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0:44:07,060 --> 0:44:08,260
a nap to take me to my
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0:44:08,260 --> 0:44:10,900
car and deal with the chaos i
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0:44:10,900 --> 0:44:13,510
told him i don't unregistered trademark t
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0:44:13,510 --> 0:44:14,770
think i should think iq and for
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0:44:14,770 --> 0:44:16,840
taking me to my car considering how
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0:44:16,840 --> 0:44:19,540
he treated me i also mentioned that
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0:44:19,570 --> 0:44:21,220
i even offered to walk when i
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0:44:21,220 --> 0:44:23,650
realised he was upset but he insisted
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0:44:23,650 --> 0:44:26,050
on taking me at that time he
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0:44:26,050 --> 0:44:27,400
went on to tell me that i
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0:44:27,400 --> 0:44:29,140
was the problem and this is a
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0:44:29,140 --> 0:44:33,010
water unregistered trademarks wrong with mia e
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0:44:33,010 --> 0:44:38,260
ita chair so i don't think she
936
0:44:38,260 --> 0:44:40,870
has the vital i do think she
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0:44:40,870 --> 0:44:42,250
should get away from this person as
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0:44:42,250 --> 0:44:44,380
fast as possible i mean whatever it
939
0:44:44,380 --> 0:44:49,900
is partner is i mean it sounds
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0:44:49,900 --> 0:44:51,550
like well what it sounds like he's
941
0:44:51,550 --> 0:44:53,890
a terrible person first about the bat
942
0:44:54,010 --> 0:44:56,140
but it kind of seems like you
943
0:44:56,140 --> 0:44:58,192
know he feels all lovey-dovey and stuff
944
0:44:59,590 --> 0:45:01,420
this was a surprise to her because
945
0:45:01,420 --> 0:45:02,620
i think he kind of showed his
946
0:45:02,830 --> 0:45:05,470
true colors by accident i mean nobody
947
0:45:05,470 --> 0:45:07,270
reacts like this to waking up from
948
0:45:07,270 --> 0:45:08,620
a nap and ne wake up from
949
0:45:08,620 --> 0:45:11,500
a nap is yeah a little grumpy
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0:45:11,500 --> 0:45:14,020
but be like oh what you save
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0:45:14,020 --> 0:45:16,540
that person's life from overdosing that's a
952
0:45:16,540 --> 0:45:20,860
big yeah that's big red flag and
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0:45:20,860 --> 0:45:23,740
then yeah i mean she offered to
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0:45:23,740 --> 0:45:25,720
walk but this doesn't seem like such
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0:45:25,720 --> 0:45:27,790
a great neighborhood if there's like homeless
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0:45:27,790 --> 0:45:29,920
people overdosing on the site but that
957
0:45:29,920 --> 0:45:32,230
also doesn't mean anything because you know
958
0:45:32,230 --> 0:45:34,690
overdosing happen so often it can happen
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0:45:34,690 --> 0:45:38,080
to any neighborhood but i mean one
960
0:45:38,090 --> 0:45:39,730
she tripped and fell down the stairs
961
0:45:39,790 --> 0:45:42,640
he doesn't care about that and then
962
0:45:42,970 --> 0:45:44,890
you know he's trying to say oh
963
0:45:44,890 --> 0:45:46,570
this is your fault i'm all grumpy
964
0:45:47,860 --> 0:45:49,900
right the dude needs to go back
965
0:45:49,900 --> 0:45:53,200
to sleep for a long time but
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0:45:53,200 --> 0:45:54,100
yeah i don't think this is a
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0:45:54,100 --> 0:45:58,450
good situation and i think you kinda
968
0:45:58,480 --> 0:46:00,940
has been yeah like i said hiding
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0:46:00,940 --> 0:46:03,310
his true colors of his personality and
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0:46:03,310 --> 0:46:04,960
everything for a while in this kind
971
0:46:04,960 --> 0:46:07,870
of you know crept out by ag
972
0:46:07,870 --> 0:46:09,610
accident but i think it's only gonna
973
0:46:09,610 --> 0:46:12,070
go worse from there where he's going
974
0:46:12,074 --> 0:46:14,080
to get more comfortable in the relationship
975
0:46:14,170 --> 0:46:17,110
and he's going to start letting more
976
0:46:17,110 --> 0:46:21,790
outbursts corral so that's kind of my
977
0:46:21,940 --> 0:46:24,220
situation she's not the asshole in the
978
0:46:24,220 --> 0:46:27,280
slightest she's quite a good person but
979
0:46:27,280 --> 0:46:29,800
i think yeah she should find a
980
0:46:29,800 --> 0:46:31,690
different situation find someone else to be
981
0:46:31,690 --> 0:46:33,850
in a relationship so i think everyone
982
0:46:33,850 --> 0:46:35,770
for watching this thing i'd take like
983
0:46:35,770 --> 0:46:37,360
a ten minute break and they're all
984
0:46:37,360 --> 0:46:43,087
switch over to forsyth so loves let's
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0:46:43,087 --> 0:46:43,540
get ready